After School Program For Your Teenage Children
So, your teenage child is getting restless and also
makes you restless. Now, he has got more time than is good for him,
and you are now considering after school programs - which means you
want to keep him busy for a few life-saving hours! Most after school
activities can be broadly classified into three - recreational, educational
and society-oriented.
Educational activities aim at improving the knowledge of your child. His general awareness, his understanding and his memory are targeted and he is given various techniques that will help him improve one or all of these. Programs such as intensive speed mathematics and memory training are educational after school activities. There are academic programs that will go over your child's homework and class work and help the child gain more in-depth knowledge in the various subjects. Thus academic programs have a clean edge over the fun and games, especially if parents feels that their kid has a lot of catching up to do.
Recreational activities include fine arts, sports and games, painting etc. The main motive here is to have fun. Of course, classes become more competitive as the child climbs up the ladder. Many sport events, competitions, stage performances etc helps to encourage the child.
When we compare the merits of the two kinds of activities, I believe that the recreational programs have more merit. Firstly, children do not enjoy learning unless they themselves feel curious about something. Most academic programs are standardized courses that are not too flexible. They have a general purpose and a well laid out methodology. After a number of hours at school, the child may feel bored. Further study may overwhelm him and make him feel frustrated. Burnout is very much a possibility here.
Recreational programs provide a welcome break from
the monotony of learning and studies. The mental challenge and the physical
exertion make the child feel a renewed zest and a pleasant sense of
fulfillment. Group activity teaches him social skills, discipline and
patience. It is a proven fact that children involved in extra curricular
activities get better grades than others. Sometimes closing the textbooks
and playing a game may be the best way to handle your studies.
Whichever program you choose for your kid, proper and regular evaluation is the key to success. You will have to measure the child's progress. If progress is unsatisfactory, get your child out of the program. The child should also have freedom to reject an activity if and when he feels bored with it. Mostly, programs that combine the educational with the recreational are best suited especially for younger children. This way, children will have fun while they learn.